

Keep affirming the person's efforts to deal with his or her crisis, expressing appreciation for the small step the person takes in coping responsibly. Discuss all the person's resources-the "things you have going for you"-inner strengths, friends, family, spiritual resources, to help in coping.Ĩ. Help the person decide which alternatives he or she wants to try now.ħ. Help her or him examine each approach in terms of probable consequences-"What will probably happen if you.?"Ħ. Encourage the person to think of other possible solutions-perhaps suggest approaches for the person to consider.ĥ. (No use to repeating things that haven't worked.)Ĥ. Encourage the individual to describe previous efforts at a solution to that part of the problem. Help the person choose one part of the problem on which to work first.ģ. (No use to wasting energy on the latter.)Ģ. As the person explores the crisis, help her or him sort out the pieces of the problem, separating those that he or she can do something about from those about which nothing can be done. Boil down the problem (to its major parts)ġ. See the person as having the ability to cope with the crisis and to learn and grow from handling it constructively, and let the person know you see him or her in this way. Affirm the person whenever possible-point out that you are aware of the strength it takes to carry the burden of the crisis, and to ask for help.Ħ. Let the person know you'd like to work together in finding something that she or he can do make the situation better.ĥ. Ask the person to tell you about the crisis-when it started, how it develop, how he or she feels about it now.Ĥ. Let the person experience your warmth and concern by your attending, listening, and empathetic responses.ģ. Check out what you understand the person to be saying to see if you're on her or his wavelength.Ģ. Listen nonjudgmentally and with caring to what the persons is feeling and experiencing. Achieving relationship (trust and caring)ġ.

Liturgy of Learning - Approaches to Church Education.Orden para la Instalación de un Pastor o Pastora.Christian Education Resources Recursos Educativos Cristianos
